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I started suspecting that my boyfriend might be cheating on me when he started acting a little more secretive. Since we live together, we have gotten used to not having much privacy from each other, but that was always alright until he started acting weird. He started taking his cell phone to the washroom with him, hiding his laptop from me, and even started going out later, claiming that he was with his buddies. I decided to do some digging of my own, and started looking on free hookup dating sites to see if I could find him. Since I didn't have access to his laptop or computer, I made a fake account on a free hookup dating site and started looking around to see if I could find him, but when I couldn't find him anywhere, I decided that I was crazy, deleted the fake account, and forgot all about it.

Is your partner cheating on you? Use technology to find out

Weeks later, I still couldn't shake the crazy feeling I had, I was convinced that my boyfriend was cheating on me, and I was determined to find some proof. Since we both have iPhones, I started tracking my boyfriends phone and seeing where he was really going when he was out with his friends. One night, I saw that he was heading out of town and was pretty certain that he was cheating on me. The next day, I asked him where he'd been and he said he went to his friend's house down the street. By now, I was convinced that he was cheating on me, but I still wanted to find proof before going through with the break up. I knew if I wanted to catch him, I would need to use technology to find out, but he kept his phone and laptop so tightly wound that I couldn't get my hands on it. One night, when he was sleeping I took his phone and tried to look through it, but he had added a password to lock it — this was new.

Looking through your partner's online history

I knew that my boyfriend's laptop was my next best option, and I really wanted to get my hands on his online history. The next time I had the house to myself I decided to go through it completely, and find his laptop. I found in in his closet, opened it up, and started looking through his online history. I couldn't believe what I was seeing, he had been cheating on me for months after reading this evil guide about how to get laid with married women. Not only was he subscribed to an online hookup sites, but he was using a different name. Who knows how long this had really been going on. If it hadn't been for his online history, I might have never been able to prove that he was cheating on me. But now I had proof and I was going to use it to my advantage.

Find out if your partner is lying to you

If you want to find out if your partner is lying to you, you need to trust your gut, find information, and then corner him. Since liars are usually very good at changing the subject, this can be a little hard to do. I decided to do something a little crazy in order to catch him red handed. I made another fake online dating account, signed up to a site he was on, and then messaged him. While we were watching TV together, he was messaging a girl he thought wanted to hookup with him, but he was actually messaging me. I couldn't believe the type of things he was saying, and how much he was lying to me. In the end, I had full on proof that my partner was lying and cheating on my with who knows how many women. While he was sitting next to me on the couch, I messaged him saying his girlfriend was pretty, the look on his face was priceless. He looked up at me and I held up my phone. He was totally busted.

How cell phones can be used to cheat

When you're in a serious relationship, it's important to keep note of your partner's habits. Once they start breaking their usual patterns, you can easily know that something is up with them. Cell phones have become the easiest and most common tool for a cheating partner. You can download dating apps, send messages, pictures, and snapchats to just about anyone you want, without your partner even knowing. Asking your partner to look through their cell phone is definitely evasive and crazy, but if someone gives you good reason to believe they are cheating, they won't hesitate to hand over their phone if they aren't.